rites of passage that we go through from puberty to menopause can
have a positive or negative association - from absent or painful menstruation,
to childbirth, to pleasurable sex, to trauma. From what we are told when we are young not to be promiscuous, to derogatory names if we have had many
sexual partners. This can lead to guilt or shame that can be stored in the
body. Maybe there has even been a perception of the genitals been seen as sinful
Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the vagina. It literally means "Divine
Passage" or "Sacred Temple." The seed of our sexuality is in our heart. By following the guidance Tantra offers, we learn
to connect our heart to our yoni’s pleasure. This leads to a place where the yoni can be experienced as fully as the heart.
Yoni healing begins to unfold this delicate flower to help us connect with sexuality, sensuality, playfulness, love and
There is so much emotion and trauma held in the yoni. To open there and release
that clears the way for a whole new level of sexual experience. This process of
healing the yoni, of releasing fears and trauma, is like pulling the weeds from
a garden to allow space for beautiful flowers to grow. Sacred Tantric Yoni
Healing Massage allows us to plant these flowers within our bodies —
flowers of love, joy and ecstasy.
The goal of the Sacred
Tantric Yoni Healing Massage is not solely to achieve orgasm, although orgasm
is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal can be as simple as to
pleasure and massage the yoni. From this perspective both receiver and giver
can relax, and do not have to worry about achieving any particular goal.